Sex & intimacy therapy
Sex & Intimacy Therapy in Boulder, Colorado
Intimacy is about more than sex. Sex is about everything else.
In-person counseling in Boulder, Colorado Online throughout Colorado
It is about desire, vulnerability, communication, trust, pleasure, curiosity, and the ability to let yourself be known. Therapy can create space to talk about the parts of intimacy that can be difficult to discuss—even with someone you love.
Whether you come alone or with a partner, intimacy counseling can help you understand what is getting in the way, name what you want, and practice more honest and connected ways of relating.
Session fees
| Session length | Couples | Individuals |
|---|---|---|
| 50 minutes | $185 | $150 |
| 75 minutes | $265 | $215 |
| 90 minutes | $310 | $250 |
Ask about Mentaya for out-of-network insurance reimbursement help.
Focus of the work
Topics we can explore
- Mismatched desire, desire, and arousal
- Sexual communication and vulnerability
- Sexual shame and religious or cultural messages about sex
- Intimacy after major life changes
- Commitment and premarital counseling around intimacy and partnership
- Sexuality, identity, and exploring what you want
- Teens 15+ exploring identity, relationships, communication, and questions about intimacy + consent
- Reconnecting sexually and relationally
- Relationship and sexual concerns
With intention
A more honest conversation about intimacy.
You do not need to arrive with perfect language or a neatly defined concern. We can begin with what feels difficult, absent, confusing, or hard to say.
I welcome clients exploring a wide range of consensual relationship and sexual experiences and identities. The work is shaped around what matters to you, your values, and the relationship you want to create.
Questions, answered
Frequently asked questions
What does sex and intimacy therapy involve?
It is a place to explore desire, communication, vulnerability, trust, sexuality, and the patterns that affect closeness. The work is collaborative and shaped around your concerns.
Can I come alone if my concern involves my relationship?
Yes. Individual intimacy therapy can help you clarify your experience, understand your patterns, and consider how you want to show up in the relationship.
Do you work with mismatched desire?
Yes. Mismatched desire can involve many relational, emotional, cultural, and practical factors. Counseling can help make room for a more curious and less blaming conversation.
Can intimacy and sex therapy be for single individuals?
Yes. Sex and sexuality are personal expressions and experiences. Single, partnered, or otherwise, this exploration is yours to take, for yourself.
A meaningful next step
Ready to do something differently?
If you are curious about whether we would be a good fit, book a consultation.
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